Mr. Maiquez gave us some questions related to the ethical dilema stuff.
Think about these questions and see how you answer them.
1. When somebody says “just be yourself,” what does that mean?
I guess that means to just act normal. When I say normal, I mean the way you would normaly act around friends, family, or by yourself.
2. Is it always easy to be yourself, or can it sometimes be difficult? Why? How? Give examples.
It’s usually easy. Unless your friend does something that you know is wrong (referring to that jerk/not-friend-anymore guy I’ve been talking about) and you still want to be his/her friend, therefore you don’t do anything.
3. A lot of kids around talk about “fitting in.” What does “fitting in” mean? How do you do it?
Fitting in is acting like the people around you so that you will be accepted into their “social group” and not be an outcast.
4. Is it true that there is a lot of pressure in this school? What do you have to do to fit in here?
No. There are a lot of spoiled jerks who think they’re better than everyone else at my school, but I don’t even try to fit in with them.
5. Does fitting in ever make it hard to be yourself?
It can.
6. What if you don’t fit in? Is that okay, or does it mean there’s something wrong with you?
If you don’t fit in, that just means you’re different from the others. There’s nothing wrong with you, it’s probably just because you don’t like the other people. Sometimes it’s because you might just simply be a jerk therefore nobody will like you with legitamite reasonning.
7. Are there groups here in school? Cliques? (Gangs) What are they?
No. (the easiest answer I can think of)
8. Why do these groups exist? What do they do for the people in them?
They don’t.
9. Does being in a group sometimes make it harder to be yourself? How? In what way? Examples?
It can. I saw a movie with these three brothers in a band who held up the radio station just to play there (debut) album. (They actually had water pistols) Two of them were fine with the whole thing, but the other one (Adam Sandler) was sort of shy and polite. The other two brothers had to try to teach him to be mean. (ex. he used to say,”Get over there now please!” which you can tell isn’t very forcefull)He couldn’t act like himself.
10. Are there pressures to fit into these groups? If so, describe the pressures.
Yes. Some people just want to be considered gang members/tough guys. For ex. the gang-member-wannabe who shot Bill Cosby’s son just to prove to that gang he was tough enough.