Different ways of getting away from or stopping bullies depend on the type of bully that you are dealing with. If it is a “classic” bully, I would try to fight back. If it is a really fat and big bully, it wouldn’t be too hard. I could either run around and make him tired, run away, jump on his back and punch him in the temple (if he is hurting someone else especially), kick him in the back of of the knee cap to make him fall, or simply tell a teacher.
If someone is beating up my freind, I would not be able to hold back unless I knew he could and wanted to handle it. If my freind obviously can’t handle it, I will jump on the other guy’s back, pull up on his chin, and kick him in the back of the leg. After that I would bring it to a reasonable teacher who would understand, and try to get the bully suspended or hopefully expelled. If I ever see a freind or relative or being beaten up, I will definately do something right away.
Psychological bullies are different. If and when one of them teases me or a freind, I am always tempted to whop him/her in the face or say a nasty insult back. But I can’t handle the terrible feeling that comes after it. The worst I’ve ever done is puch Min Tae and Allen. But they are my freinds and they are super big and super strong (especially Min Tae), and I only do it as a joke and they don’t care. If a really nasty psychological bully gets really bad about it, I will be forced to do something. I haven’t ever done anything like that yet, but I think that I will at one point. I hope that that person (I know who I might do that to at one point) will finally stop being such a self-centered jerk if I do that.
Some bullies just have problems and need someone to talk to. If I see someone beeing bullied, what I might do is talk to the bully. I’ll ask him what’s going on and if something is bothering him. I will try to make him feel better so he won’t beat anyone else up anymore. Many bullies have problems with their fathers. Either he physically abuses him, or he left when the boy was young. (4-8 years) I would hope to become his freind
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1 Brian // Apr 29, 2006 at 6:04 pm
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2 Bronwyn G // Apr 30, 2006 at 11:37 am
It’s interesting how you mentioned that not many bullies have male role models.
Do you have a source for that information?
It is very sad.
We need both male and female input to realise all the possibilities of our sex and gender roles.
Do you know any people who don’t have fathers who don’t become bullies? Of course they would be the vast majority …
3 isaac12sjs // May 1, 2006 at 1:22 pm
I have a very relevant source for that info, but I do know that as a fact. Also, the bully on The Simpsons, Nelson’s father left him when he was about five, and many episodes have shown distress about this happening and Nelson trying to convince himelf that his dad will come home.
4 Bronwyn G // May 4, 2006 at 6:13 pm
Very interesting.
The Simpsons and sociology!